Wink Murder (Wink Assassin)
A secret "murderer" eliminates players by winking at them. The group must figure out who the murderer is before everyone is eliminated.
How to Play
Have everyone sit or stand in a circle. One person is designated as the detective and leaves the room or closes their eyes.
While the detective isn't looking, silently tap one person on the shoulder — they are the "murderer."
The detective returns and stands in the center.
Everyone begins looking around at each other. The murderer subtly winks at people to "kill" them.
When someone is winked at, they must wait 5 seconds, then dramatically "die" (fall down, act it out!).
The detective has 3 guesses to identify the murderer. If they guess correctly, they win! If not, the murderer wins.
Facilitator Tips
Encourage dramatic deaths — it makes the game much more fun.
For larger groups, assign 2 detectives or 2 murderers.
Use cards to assign roles: Ace of Spades = murderer, King = detective, all others = civilians.
Variations & Twists
Handshake Murder: Instead of winking, the murderer scratches the victim's palm during a handshake while everyone mingles.
Mafia-Style: Add more roles like a doctor who can save people.
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